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Food For Thought For Monday, July 25th, 2011

Greatest General, The
  by: Neil Eskelin, Source Unknown

Let tell you about a man who died and met Saint Peter at the pearly gates. Realizing Saint Peter was a wise and knowledgeable person, he said, “Saint Peter, I have been interested in military history for many years. Tell me who was the greatest general of all times?”

Saint Peter quickly responded, “Oh, that’s a simple question. It is that man right over there,” as he pointed nearby.

The man said, “You must be mistaken, Saint Peter. I knew that man on earth. He was just a common laborer.”

“That’s right, my friend,” replied Saint Peter. “But he would have been the greatest general of all time — if he had been a general.”

You were created with natural abilities and an internal compass that guides you toward a particular focus for your life. That’s only the starting point; the next step is yours. You have an obligation to expand that potential to its ultimate destiny.

Michelangelo said, “It is only well with me when I have a chisel in my hand.”

Discover what you are supposed to do and do it!

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Food For Thought For July 24th, 20–

CEO Reveals Secret
  by: Sandra Chereb, Source Unknown

For decades, Jay Thiessens hid a painful secret as he built his machine and tool company from a mom-and-pop operation into a $5 million-a-year enterprise. During the day he hid behind the role of a harried businessman, too busy to review contracts or shuffle through mail. At night, his wife, Bonnie, would help him sort through the paperwork at the kitchen table, in the living room, or sometimes sitting up in bed.

Other tasks he delegated to a core group of managers at B&J Machine Tool Co. who had no idea their boss couldn’t read.

“I worked for him for seven years and I had no clue,” said Jack Sala, now the engineering manager for Truckee Precision, a B&J competitor. “I was his general manager. He would bring legal stuff to me and say, ‘You’re better at legalese than me.’ I never knew I was the only one reading them.”

Few people knew of his shame and most burning desire: To be able to read a simple bedtime story to his grandchildren. But he couldn’t keep his illiteracy secret forever. “It became too hard to continue to hide it,” said Thiessens, who has begun to read at the age of 56. “Since I made the decision to let everybody know, it’s a big relief.”

On Wednesday, Thiessens will be honored in Washington, D.C., as one of six national winners of the 1999 National Blue Chip Enterprise Initiative Award. Sponsored by the U.S. Chamber of Commerce and MassMutual, the award recognizes small businesses that have triumphed over adversity.

Thiessens’ torment took root when he was in the first or second grade in McGill, a small mining town in central Nevada. “A teacher called me stupid because I had trouble reading,” he said. All through school, he was the quiet little boy in the back of the room.

“I think the teachers just got tired of looking at me so they passed me on,” he said. He graduated from White Pine High School in Ely 1963, getting mostly C’s, D’s and F’s. He made the honor roll once, in his senior

year when he landed A’s in auto mechanics and machine shop.

The day after graduation, Thiessens moved to Reno, where 10 years later he started a small machine shop with his last $200. Today, B&J specializes in welding, machine parts and precision sheet metal work. With 50 employees, the company conducts $5 million a year in business and just broke ground on

a new 54,000 square-foot expansion.

Despite his success, the stigma of being labeled a dummy haunted him through adulthood. He compensated by being a good listener. He rarely forgets details and has a solid grasp of math and figures, a trait essential to the industry, others say.

“The majority of everything we do is technical,” said Randy Arnett of A&B Precision, B&J’s longest competitor. “It has more to do with math, geometrical shapes, than verbiage.”

“He’s always been a decent competitor,” Arnett said of Thiessens.

Two years ago, Thiessens was invited to join a local chapter of The Executive Committee, a kind of CEO-support group where non-competing chief executives discuss business trials and tribulations in confidence.

Thiessens was reluctant. “He was concerned he wouldn’t measure up to the rest of the group,” said Randy Yost, committee chairman and former CEO of Placer Bank of Commerce in California. “About 6 months after we met, he told me he had a reading problem,” Yost said. “At that time, he was very tight-vested about it.”

Thiessens confessed to the rest of the group last year.

“He was a little teary. His voice was shaking,” recalled Doug Damon, a group member and CEO of Damon Industries, a beverage concentrate manufacturer. “It was clearly a difficult thing for him to do.” Damon was surprised by Thiessens confession. “I knew he was a high school graduate, and so I guess I automatically assumed he knew how to read. He’d been very successful in his business. Who would have thought?”

Thiessens feared titters and jeers from his college-educated CEO peers. Instead, he was overwhelmed by support. “As much as I respected him for what he accomplished, it enhanced my respect for him,” Yost said.

Last October, Thiessens found a tutor to instruct him for an hour a day, five days a week. That’s also when he told his plant managers. The rest of his employees found out last month.

Thiessens recently read “Gung Ho,” a book on employee relations, as a management team project. It was slow going as he underlined all the words he didn’t know and later sought help with. But he finished it. He wants someday to be able to rifle through mail as quickly as his wife and “round file” the piles of junk mail that comes across his desk.

More importantly, he hopes his story will encourage others to learn to read.

“There is no shame in not knowing how to read,” said Mrs. Thiessens, his wife of 37 years. “The shame is not doing anything about 

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Food for Thought for July 23rd, 2011

A woman came out of her house and saw three old men with long white beards sitting in her front yard.  She did not recognize them.  She said, "I don’t think I know you, but you must be hungry.  Please come in and have something to eat."

"Is the man of the house home?"  they asked.

"No," she said.  "He’s out."

"Then we cannot come in," they replied.

In the evening when her husband came home, she told him what had happened.  "Go tell them I am home and invite them in," replied the husband.

   The woman went out and invited the men in.

   "We don’t go into a house together," they replied.

   "Why is that?" she wanted to know.

   One of the old men explained, "His name is Wealth," he said pointing to one of his friends.  Then he said, pointing to another one, "He is Success  and I am Love."  Then he added,

"Now go in and discuss with your husband which one of us you want in your home."

The woman went in and told her husband what was said.

Her husband was overjoyed.  "How nice!" he said.  "Since that is the case, let us invite Wealth.  Let him come and fill our home with wealth."

His wife disagreed, "My Dear, why don’t we invite Success?"

Their daughter-in-law was listening from the other corner of the house.  She jumped in with her own suggestion, "Would it not be better to invite Love?  Our home will be filled with love."

"Let us heed our daughter-in-law’s advice," said the husband to his wife.  "Go out and invite Love to be our guest."The woman went out and asked the three old men, "Which one of you is Love?  Please come in and be our guest."

Love got up and started walking toward the house.  The other two also got up and started following him.

Surprised, the lady asked Wealth and Success, "I only invited Love, why are you coming in?"

The old men replied together, "If you had invited Wealth or Success the other two of us would’ve stayed out.  Since you invited Love, wherever he goes we go with him.  Wherever there is love there is also wealth and success!"

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Food For Thought for July 22nd, 2011

Busy by Stephen Covey

Once upon a time a very strong woodcutter ask for a job in a timber merchant, and he got it. The paid was really good and so were the work conditions. For that reason, the woodcutter was determined to do his best.

His boss gave him an axe and showed him the area where he was supposed to work.

The first day, the woodcutter brought 18 trees

“Congratulations,” the boss said. “Go on that way!”

Very motivated for the boss’ words, the woodcutter try harder the next day, but he only could bring 15 trees. The third day he try even harder, but he only could bring 10 trees.Day after day he was bringing less and less trees.

“I must be losing my strength”, the woodcutter thought. He went to the boss and apologized, saying that he could not understand what was going on.

“When was the last time you sharpened your axe?” the boss asked.

“Sharpen? I had no time to sharpen my axe. I have been very busy trying to cut trees…”

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Food For Thought For July 21st, 2011

In 1982 Steven Callahan was crossing the Atlantic alone in his sailboat when it struck something and sank. He was out of the shipping lanes and floating in a life raft, alone. His supplies were few. His chances were small. Yet when three fishermen found him seventy-six days later (the longest anyone has survived a shipwreck on a life raft alone), he was alive — much skinnier than he was when he started, but alive.

His account of how he survived is fascinating. His ingenuity — how he managed to catch fish, how he fixed his solar still (evaporates sea water to make fresh) — is very interesting.

But the thing that caught my eye was how he managed to keep himself going when all hope seemed lost, when there seemed no point in continuing the struggle, when he was suffering greatly, when his life raft was punctured and after more than a week struggling with his weak body to fix it, it was still leaking air and wearing him out to keep pumping it up. He was starved. He was desperately dehydrated. He was thoroughly exhausted. Giving up would have seemed the only sane option.

When people survive these kinds of circumstances, they do something with their minds that gives them the courage to keep going. Many people in similarly desperate circumstances give in or go mad. Something the survivors do with their thoughts helps them find the guts to carry on in spite of overwhelming odds.

“I tell myself I can handle it,” wrote Callahan in his narrative. “Compared to what others have been through, I’m fortunate. I tell myself these things over and over, building up fortitude….”

I wrote that down after I read it. It struck me as something important. And I’ve told myself the same thing when my own goals seemed far off or when my problems seemed too overwhelming. And every time I’ve said it, I have always come back to my senses.

The truth is, our circumstances are only bad compared to something better. But others have been through much worse. I’ve read enough history to know you and I are lucky to be where we are, when we are, no matter how bad it seems to us compared to our fantasies. It’s a sane thought and worth thinking.

So here, coming to us from the extreme edge of survival, are words that can give us strength. Whatever you’re going through, tell yourself you can handle it. Compared to what others have been through, you’re fortunate. Tell this to yourself over and over, and it will help you get through the rough spots with a little more fortitude.

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Thursday, July 21st: Anil Pujara & Rahul Khanna presents…

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From: The Conga Room <CongaRoomLive@gmail.com>
Date: July 20, 2011 12:14:12 PM PDT
To: sanjay@zibabeauty.com
Subject: Thursday, July 21st: Anil Pujara & Rahul Khanna presents…
Reply-To: Anil Pujara <Anil@CongaRoom.com>

Hi Facebook Friends, Twitter Followers, Google+ Circlers, and Family Members,

Happy Summer!!! We want to start by thanking everyone who recently came out to Jay Dabhi,
Cheb I Sabbah Fundraiser and the AR Rahman Concert at Hollywood Bowl.

As we hit the midpoint of the summer, we thought we’d give everyone
a break from all the email blasts and facebook messages the last couple of weeks.

But now its time to remind you that we’re having our next event Thursday night, July 21st

6th Edition of Bollywood Bhangra at Conga Room LA LIVE
featuring Dhol Beat International straight in from Texas

famous for making the Absolut Bhangra & Dance Radio Asia soundtracks

Check out a clip of their remixes below.

“Punjabiyan De Dhol Vaajdey” [youtube http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U_GOgF-Wwjs]

Highlights of the Night Will Include:

*BJ Josan and Amar Sandhu will be your 1:2 punch for the night
*Free giveaways from Ziba Beauty, BodyKits.org
*Free CD giveaways from Dhol Beat International
*Free Henna Tattoos by Wedding 24 from 9-11pm

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Anil Pujara

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