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URGENT: Please Help Save Sonia Rai’s Life

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From: “Sumit Rai” <sumit.rai2@gmail.com>
Date: December 18, 2010 3:52:06 PM PST
To: “Sanjay” <sanjay@zibabeauty.com>
Subject: URGENT: Please Help Save Sonia Rai’s Life
Reply-To: “Sumit Rai” <sumit.rai2@gmail.com>

  
Dear Friends and Family,

  Please take a moment to read this email. My baby sister, Sonia was diagnosed one week ago with Acute Myelogenous Leukemia (AML), which is a cancer of the blood. She is in urgent need of a bone marrow transplant. Sonia is 24 years old, and receiving excellent care at Massachusetts General Hospital in Boston. Her diagnosis caught us all by surprise and we need to act very quickly to find a bone marrow match.

  Sonia is currently undergoing intense chemotherapy but requires a bone marrow transplant quickly to survive beyond the next few months.  Increasing the number of South Asians registered as potential bone marrow donors will help Sonia and will benefit our whole community since there are currently not enough South Asians registered as donors. 

  I am grateful to all those who have already reached out to help.  There are some key things you can do right away — time is of the essence.  

  Five Things You Can Do To Help:

(you will also be able to access this information shortly at www.curesonia.org

1) Please get registered immediately.
Getting registered is quick and requires a simple, non-invasive cheek swab (2 minutes of your time) and filling out some forms (5 minutes of your time). Registering is VERY simple and does not require a blood test!

  We are organizing at least 10 bone marrow drives over the next 2 weeks, and plan to multiply that tenfold in the next 6 weeks.  These are the initial drives we are working to schedule:

  Dec 31st – New Years Eve at various South Asian Parties/Events (LA, SF, Boston, NYC/NJ, Philadelphia)
Jan 1st – New Years Day at Community Centers including temples (LA, SF, Boston, NYC, NJ)

  The fastest way to get registered is at one of Sonia’s donor drives in person. If you are unable to attend an event, you can register online at http://www.marrow.org/JOIN/index.html.

2) Spread the word.
Please share this email message with at least 20 people (particularly South Asians), and ask them to do the same. Please use the power of your address book, the web, and social networking to spread this message – today more than ever before, we can achieve a broad scale effort and be part of a large online movement to save lives.  We need to get the word out quickly.  Saving Sonia is about numbers and odds. 

  Post the following message on your Facebook wall:  Please help Sonia Rai win her fight against leukemia! Visit www.curesonia.org to join the movement!

  Promote local drives within your network – we need people to attend and get registered in person. Local drive information will always be up-to-date at www.curesonia.org.  

  3) Organize a drive.
If you can, sponsor a drive at your company or in your community. Drives need to take place in the next 1-2 weeks to be of help to Sonia.  Hosting a drive can be as simple as setting up a table at an existing event…so it doesn’t have to be very time consuming to plan.  Please contact rahul@rkpromotions.com for more info.

4) Learn more.
To learn more, please visit www.curesonia.org . The site includes more details on how to organize your own drive, valuable information about AML, plus FAQs on registering.

  5)  Join Team Sonia.
We are urgently looking for volunteers to help us in the following areas.  Please contact the individuals below ASAP if you can volunteer your time/services.

  Website Design – krishna@mobclix.com
Facebook Social Networking- vishal@mobclix.com
Volunteering at one of our Bone Marrow Drives – sunil@mobclix.com
Organizing Your Own Bone Marrow Drive- rahul@rkpromotions.com
General questions – sumit.rai2@gmail.com

  Team Sonia will be hosting a conference call on Sunday, 12/19 at 5pm PST/8pm EST for all volunteers. 888-898-9214 – Conf Code 8189542195. Please dial in if you are interested in volunteering.

  My parents,Nilu and Ajit Rai, and I thank you from the bottom of our hearts for helping Sonia win her fight against leukemia – and for helping others who may face blood cancers today and in the future.  We cannot express in words what we are going through.  We kindly ask you to imagine that this is your daughter, your sister, your best friend. We are guessing you would move mountains to save her life.  Please help us save Sonia.

Thank you again,
Sumit Rai

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FAQs on Bone Marrow Transplant

  What are the actual chances of finding a suitable marrow or stem cell donor, and how do I know if I’m a match?
The odds of finding a match vary, but the best case scenario for South Asians is 1 in 20,000. If you are found to be a possible match, you will be contacted by the National Registry or your local center. You will be presented with the option of proceeding to the next level of testing to become an actual donor and saving someone’s life. 

How is my marrow is collected?
It is actually quite simple – there are a lot of misconceptions here.  The most common procedure is peripheral blood stem cell collection and does not require any surgery.  It is similar to a blood donation.  You are given injections to support overproduction of marrow, which is then released into your circulating blood. The cells are collected by removing blood from your arm during a simple procedure that takes just a couple hours. Again, it is very similar to donating blood – isn’t it amazing that it’s that easy to save someone’s life?! 

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Brownness, Myself, Preeti

Save Me

by Jemal Yarbrough

Surrounded by books like You are What You Eat to What to Eat Before, During and After Cancer Treatment, it hits me that Cancer has given me a life I thought impossible.  Scattered on the bed are various notes and business cards from the dozens we have consulted in the medical field but still we do not and cannot know enough.  We are still ignorant as to what is about to come, and in some ways you could say in denial. Shoved aside to the side are the many Christmas presents we bought for our families and friends, but they lay ignored and unwrapped in another room, waiting perhaps for one of my relatives to take pity and finally put then in beautiful wrapping paper. It would appear from all of this that emptiness resides in our lives, but you would be dead wrong.

 

Along with the horrible, Cancer also gave me the improbable:  a wonderful wife.  I hadn’t dared to dream that the beautiful person who affected my life and soul would now be my life partner.  Strange, how the proliferation of some body cells can melt away 4 years of “hell no’s” and resistance to the idea of us getting married.  Funny, how I can be accepted into a household where my name couldn’t even be mentioned, and break bread.  You would think I would be filled with resentment or, worse, anger, but neither has a place in my heart.  I will not and cannot allow the past to corrupt my present and future.  As if by magic, I have allowed the cancer of peace and acceptance to fill our families rather than use it to destroy what’s left.  There is only room for love and forgiveness.  In a matter of days, we are going to be tied to each other for life, officially that is.  I had accepted her in my life a long time ago, something I wish I had told her a while ago.  I cannot bear the thought that she thinks it’s because of Cancer but only because it’s is true on the surface.  But she needs to know what I mean: Cancer gave me the courage to talk to her family.  I finally did what I have not been able to put my foot down and rightfully claim what’s mine.

 

There are some who would not see this as any victory, and some may even opine that now that’s sick her family agreed just to save face.  I would counter that even if that’s true, the victory is still mine.  I have her, and in the end that’s all that matters.  They say people come into your life for a reason or a season perhaps even to teach a lesson.  Preeti is all of the above, she makes the person I want to be, the person I see myself to be. I know the road ahead is potted with long hours, and perhaps fights and definite exhaustion but Cancer needs to know it has fucked with the wrong people.  It obviously doesn’t know her anger or my strength.  Together, we are unbeatable.  You have been warned, Cancer.

 

Myself, Preeti

Truth

I spent 20  minutes trying to copy an image that perfectly captures my feelings and in my quest to get that picture right, I lost sight that I needed to write.  There was a reason I am at an unholy hour on a Sunday night.  A need to get it out all out.  But the truth is, I am avoiding writing because this year will perhaps be the culmination of something I hadn’t dared to think about in years: Marriage.

In a way, I am already married, and the vision of being with the one I love for the rest of my life not at all daunting, in fact even exciting.  Yet I do not want to cross this path alone, and I do not want to do it in darkness.  No more hiding.  No more lying.  The truth will set us free, but more importantly allow us to live.

Lately, I have become superstitious that what my beautiful love is going through can be cleansed by the truth.  I no longer want to lie to anyone about anything.  Yes, to answer the ones wronged, I am trying to be AN ANGEL because I am willing to do whatever it takes to start a life partnership on a path of clarity, reality but best of all honesty.

It’s not easy as it looks.  Recently, I told a dear friend about her fiancée (who also happens to be a good friend of mine) who I felt cheated on her (a mere two weeks after he proposed to her) based on what he told me.  Yes, I broke the man rules because the truth is that I am not one of the boys, and I can no longer keep quiet on what is wrong.  As someone pointed out, as long as your know you will lose one friend, then go for it.  And I did, and the only thing I really have to show for it is that my conscience is clear, I am less one friend and discovering that the person I thought to be “saved” has decided to go back to the friend. So now I am less two friend, full of the feeling that determined people will hurt themselves no matter what anyone does, and perhaps nothing will change in life except me.

And then there is Preeti’s cousin who lives 15 miles away but has not bothered to call, or even stop by even though she’s fighting for her life and future.  Sure, he can go see his girlfriend but heaven forbid he actually check on a supposed close family member.  And then I caught myself.  I could do this all day long.  I could begin to stop talking to everyone that I think has done me or Preeti wrong but then there wouldn’t be many friends left.  The reality is, people are selfish, dishonest, indifferent but they also happen to be dearest to someone in our lives.  What do you do then?  Quit friends?  Quit life?  Quit the truth?  No, I realize.  You move on.  You forget.  The ones that mean something stick around, and the ones that do not, vanish.  The truth makes certain of that.

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iTesh – New Years Eve

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From: iTesh <iteshsingh@yahoo.com>
Date: December 9, 2010 12:59:38 PM PST
To: Sanjay Sabarwal <sanjay@zibabeauty.com>
Subject: Re: iTesh – New Years Eve

Hello Sanjay, I have attached the flyer to this email.

Thank you,
iTesh